
By Katie Azevedo, M.Ed.
Iâve seen this one particular meme a few times now. Itâs funny, and I appreciate the humor behind it.
Hereâs the two-sentence meme: âIâm really glad I learned about parallelograms in high school math instead of how to do my taxes. It really comes in handy during parallelogram season.â
Again, I think the meme is funny and it has a point. I agree that some high school curricula could be replaced with more relevant content.Â
However, as a lifelong educator, I canât help but read the meme and think Wait! Thereâs a reason high schools teach parallelograms that has nothing to do with parallelograms! Itâs not pointless!
In this blog post, I aim to answer the question: What’s the point of school?
Iâm exploring this topic because I have many conversations with students who are losing motivation for school. Theyâre losing interest. Why? Because they’re focusing on the wrong thing. They’re so focused on the parallelogram’s practical irrelevance that they miss the real point behind the lesson.
And the real point is what weâre talking about here.
Whatâs the (Obvious) Point of School? Letâs Start Here âŠ
Donât get me wrong â a standard high school curriculum has a ton of value.
Itâs important to learn about historical events so we donât repeat our mistakes.
Itâs critical to learn how to read and write so we can be functional adults.
Itâs essential to learn the basic principles of science so we can remain progressive.
And itâs imperative that students get exposure to a wide variety of content areas so they can determine what they like and donât like. This will in turn lead to choosing the right college and a satisfying career.
(How else would a teenager discover their love for chemistry if they werenât exposed to chemistry in high school? Thatâs not something likely to be âstumbledâ upon.)
But, with all that said, I believe the most valuable lessons from four years of high school come from the PROCESS of learning, not just the content itself.
In other words, itâs not parallelograms that really matter â itâs what we get from the process of learning about parallelograms that matters. The struggle, the resourcefulness, the figuring-it-out bit, the âhow do I think about this?â bit ⊠THESE are the lessons that matter. THIS is the real point of school.
So, Whatâs the (Real) Point of School?
The list below includes what I argue is the real point of school. You may agree with me, or you may not â thatâs all okay.
If you came to this blog post thinking there is no point of school ⊠all of itâs useless, then I challenge you to shift your focus. Shift your focus away from CONTENT and onto the REAL lessons, which I outline below. Thatâs where youâll find the relevance.
To Learn How to Think
Think about this: If there were no school, where else would you learn how to think? Where else would you learn how to form thoughts about new information in a safe environment with people who are also doing the same thing?
Critical thinking skills arenât something weâre born with. Theyâre something we develop whenever weâre exposed to different experiences. And school is one of the only places where this development is structured and intentional.
When you analyze a text, work through a math proof, or study a historical event, youâre growing your thinking skills. Youâre learning how to look closely at information, spot patterns, question assumptions, and form connections between ideas.
Even if you never again calculate the area of a parallelogram, learning HOW to approach and solve that problem develops the thinking skills youâll use in every other part of your life.
School gives you multiple chances every single day to practice thinking about things. Youâre surrounded by other people who are also practicing thinking about things. You have a guide (the teacher) supporting you and demonstrating how to think.
Youâre given writing assignments to organize your thinking into clear written arguments. Iâve heard hundreds of students complain that âthis essay on The Great Gatsby is so uselessâ or âI donât get why we have to write a pointless essay on Beloved.â If youâve thought similar thoughts, youâre missing the entire point.Â
Writing is the ultimate way to organize your thinking. In high school, writing assignments arenât so much about writing as they are about teaching you how to develop a point of view on a topic. Again, the point is not the TOPIC, itâs the SKILL youâre learning. The point isnât The Great Gatsby â the point is developing the ability to read something, understand it, form an opinion about it, and validate your thinking with evidence and analysis.
Nowhere else does this kind of concentrated âthinking trainingâ happen in a safe, low-ish stakes environment.
You would never expect to win a basketball game without practicing a ton. School is practice. School lets you practice your thinking muscles so that when you face real-life obstacles and choices â picking a major, applying to colleges, evaluating news sources, making financial choices â you have the skills to think through them.

To Learn How to Learn
Another major point of school is to learn how to learn. To be honest, I wish schools did a better job teaching students how to learn, but thatâs why I created SchoolHabits University. (Thatâs my online course that teaches you how to learn so you can handle school like a pro.)
Hereâs the thing: Most students donât think about learning as a skill in itself. But the truth is, knowing how to learn is one of the most valuable abilities you can have.
When you take a class that feels difficult or irrelevant, the deeper skill youâre building is how to learn things. How to process new material. How to connect it to what you already know. How to retain it for future use.
When you take notes from a textbook, the deeper skill youâre learning is how to check your understanding of written material and absorb it so it becomes knowledge. Itâs not about the content of the textbook as much as itâs about how to learn from a book.
School trains you to approach new material with curiosity, grit, and strategies for making sense of it â even when it feels hard.
In your future career and personal life, youâre going to need to know how to learn. If not, youâre going to get left behind.
Again, I wish schools did a better job of teaching these âhow to learnâ skills, but the reality is that most teachers only have time to focus on content. SchoolHabits University is the best place to learn these strategies, and then school is where you can use them.
To Learn How to Problem-Solve (Resourcefulness)
I wish it werenât so, but life is full of problems youâll need to solve. If you donât know how to solve problems, youâll have a hard life.
The ability to look neutrally at a problem you donât immediately know the answer to, break down the issue to see whatâs at its core, analyze your options, and know how to make an educated decision toward a solution is a skill that can be taught.
School gives you countless opportunities to practice solving problems so you donât flail when you face more serious problems in the future.
Every time you face a confusing assignment, youâre given the chance to practice problem-solving.
Whenever you encounter a tech issue, youâre given the chance to practice problem-solving and resourcefulness.
When you face an unclear set of instructions, find yourself in miscommunication with your teacher, or have to handle four exams on the same day during exam season, what do you do?
Do you know where to start? Do you check your notes? Write an email? Rewatch a video? Ask a classmate? Google it?
Thatâs problem-solving. Thatâs resourcefulness.
The point of school isnât to memorize every vocabulary word or mathematical formula for the rest of your life. The point is to learn how to find solutions, answers, and information when you need to.
School is essentially designed to present you with a series of problems that have to be solved ⊠every single day. Again, this is the point of school. School is where you practice.
Bonus Resource: Listen to my podcast episode about how to be more resourceful. It’s a good one.
To Learn How to Do Things When You Donât Want To
Letâs be real: No one wants to do every assignment theyâre given. No one wants to study for every upcoming test. No one wants to write every paper. But thatâs kind of the point.
Success in life doesnât come from only doing things when you feel like it. Itâs about showing up, following through, and completing tasks even when youâd rather not. Especially when youâd rather not.
Letâs look at an example. Letâs say you have a huge lab report to write for biology. You donât like biology and you have no intention of pursuing a biology career. You might think to yourself, This lab report is pointless. Iâm never going to need this information in my life.
And youâre probably right. But youâre also missing the point.
The point of the lab report is to practice doing things when you donât want to do them. The point of the lab report is to develop the emotional regulation skills required to do it anyway.
Letâs look at another example. Letâs say you have a test in five days. You know you should start studying now because using spaced repetition is the most effective way to study.Â
But you donât want to study. You donât like studying. Itâs hard. Youâd rather watch a movie or take a nap or go to the gym or literally do anything else.
Fair enough. You can feel this way. But if you give into those feelings and avoid studying because you donât feel like it, youâre missing the chance to develop a critical skill that youâre clearly missing.
School teaches you that motivation isnât required for action. In most cases, action comes first, and motivation follows.Â
Final Notes About the Point of School
There is a ton of value in what you learn in school. At the top of this blog post, I state the importance of understanding historical events so we donât repeat our mistakes, learning how to read and write so we can be functional adults, and knowing basic principles of science so we can remain progressive.
I also argue that school provides necessary exposure to different content areas so students can figure out what they like and make informed college and career decisions based on this information.
With that said, I wonât argue that everything you learn in school is valuable. Iâve built a wonderful life for myself without ever needing to find the slope of a line or the area of a parallelogram. But again, thatâs not the point.
The point of learning slope or mitosis or alliteration or parallelograms or how to analyze Edgar Allan Poe is to learn how to think, learn, problem-solve and do things you donât want to do. If you donât see this, youâre missing the point.